Thursday, 16 June 2011

What's the meaning of love....?

My perception about love....
As a man who ever felt in love and breakup,Frankly speaking sometimes I get confused between the meaning of  :
Love and Infatuation,
Love and Sexual Desire,
Love and Treasure
Love and Friendship,
Love,Sex and Itimacy,
And between a Good Relationship and one that is only Pleasureable....?

Until one day I realized the truth about love,....That love was much more than material comforts and gains,....Much more than sexual lust,....
But LOVE IS....

LOVE IS SHARING....

                              

Believe me when I say that this is one of the most important ingredients of love. It is important to open ones heart and share – pain, joy, success and failure, it really does not matter, as long as the heart is clear. Love is being honest and knowing that the other person feels the same way too, it is sharing and losing ones inhibitions and knowing that the person on the other side will never be judgmental.


LOVE IS FAITHFULNESS.....

To love means to be true, to love unconditionally means to give with all your heart to one, and only one. Love is when you realize that he/she is the best thing that has happened to you and you want to cherish that person and the moments spent with him/her till death do you part.

LOVE IS TALKING.....
Yes, love is talking. It is about speaking, telling and sharing. After some time people restrict their conversations to discussing bills, children and pets. This is a sure indicator of things going down hill. Bring the spark back by starting a conversation.

LOVE IS SPENDING TIME TOGETHER.....
A few minutes spent together everyday keeps the boredom away. I just made this up right now, but it is because I feel there is nothing like time invested in a relationship…believe me, it pays! Heavy work schedules take up much time and effort, so it is important to get things into perspective.


LOVE IS BEING FRIENDS....
Love is being friends with each other. Enjoying simple pleasures in life like shopping, catching a movie or watching television at home, apart from a host of other things that "Friends" normally do!


LOVE IS LOOKING TOGETHER IN THE SAME DIRECTION....

This may sound clich├ęd, but it is true…love is having the same goals and taking steps in that direction to make them come true.



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